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Thinking about going to gay bar tonight

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by The username, Aug 30, 2013.

  1. The username

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    Club not bar**

    Haven't been on much lately, but I have not needed advice lately. I've been taking something for stress and I feel a lot better lately. Anyway...

    It's kind of already been decided, and when my mind is decided...

    I am like 5 drinks in and going to hop on the train in about an hour. Don't think I will drink while there (too cheap lol). I think am just doing to dance or something... That's what they are for, right? If I don't like it I will leave. Simple as that.

    Any advice before I go? I know to watch my drinks, if I do drink, etc...

    I think it will be good, plus it will get me out of my comfort zone. Though I am drinking, so my comfort zone is pretty much not there, haha.

    This will be my first "gay experience"
    I will report back tomorrow how it went. :icon_wink

    Oh, and I have never danced in public, so that is the thing I am most worried about lol
     
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    k thx emptyclosets. Your advice helps me so much (sarcasm)
    Bus comes in 36 minutes.
     
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    ooooo! do tell us how it goes! Good luck :grin:
     
  4. Night

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    Wow, down tiger. Not everybody sits on EC all night.

    Good luck, have fun, stay safe, etc. Don't be afraid to say no to people and stand your ground blah blah.

    I hope it's fun for you.
     
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    y u no like me

    ---------- Post added 30th Aug 2013 at 09:47 PM ----------

    lol, didn't see the last two replys. The bus doesn't come for 20 more minutes (Why I am still here), but thanks for the GL I most definitely will tell you how it goes!
    After this message I will head out!!!! :slight_smile:
     
  6. Night

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    I don't know you.

    Just be safe! Not that I'm insisting gay clubs are all seedy and dangerous. Don't take drinks from anyone and don't let people get in your personal space if you aren't comfortable with it.
     
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    o btw. I intend to say no. I want to have a club experience. ^^ want to dannde XD

    ---------- Post added 30th Aug 2013 at 09:49 PM ----------

    ^^ thanks a lot :wink:
     
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    If you're not wearing a latex sailor suit they won't let you in.

    Thats the level of advice you get when sarcasm is brough in unnecessarily :slight_smile:
     
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    lol, so drunk lol, dance* sorry.
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    Will update. I already got thread deleted ob another forum. Please Don't delete. I seriously want to update so people know how it went.

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    ^^ lol thanks. Latex sailor suit check
     
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    Don't forget to act sassy!