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Seeing hot guys when out :/

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by Jessica79, Aug 31, 2013.

  1. Jessica79

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    Here's the problem I'm having when out and about I always get turned on if you will when I see a hot guy and how can I check guys out without seeing I know you can look out the corner of your eye but that's kinda obvious :/

    Any help would be amazing <3
     
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    I have a theory about this. Some people look sly and have squinty eyes. They can get away with looking more easily. Others don't. I was getting a routine eye exam and the doctor mentioned that I have big globes. When I look, it's harder to conceal that I'm looking. I hate those guys with squinty eyes. LOL.
     
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    :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: a friend caught me looking at someone ;3 and when he asked why I was looking at a guy I said I like his shirt and wanted one xD I'm bad at lying :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    I do a really good job of looking vague and I tend to look all around me all the time anyway when in public. If a hot guy happens to cross my field of vision, I just sort of take a mental snapshot as my eyes go by and keep on with whatever I was doing. Or I'll look at something in his vicinity intensely enough that it's obvious I'm looking at it and not him. But he happens to be in my field of vision as well.

    Todd
     
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    One word - sunglasses. :slight_smile:

    Lex
     
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    Genius why didn't I think about that? :3
     
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    If you can't even look and enjoy it, or you're constantly worried that someone will notice, then being gay sucks pretty bad. Staring is rude, but just make up some bs, tell the truth, or find some new friends.
     
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    I just don't want my friends to know I'm gay yet I'm waiting till I am a little older to come out but when I do get a peek I very much enjoy it especially when they have their tops off in the hot weather *-*
     
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    I had this one friend with whom we came up with clever sayings and acronyms. That one would be called "scattering your looks."