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i never get the girl

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by bsolitaire, Aug 31, 2013.

  1. bsolitaire

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    I always crush on unavailable women--straight, in a relationship...(worst was falling for a friend)..

    does it really happen when you least expect it?
     
  2. Lexington

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    Kinda. It helps if you put yourself out there more, and recognize that the "unavailables" are often idealized.

    Lex
     
  3. entropy

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    I know how you feel... had the biggest crush on my straight best friend while she had a boyfriend...
    Try not to beat yourself up over it:slight_smile:
     
  4. Loving Too Much

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    It's awful, but you'll be okay. I've been there myself, just be strong.
     
  5. cmarie

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    I think that just means you haven't found the right person yet :slight_smile: When you do you'll be glad you didn't end up with any of the unavailable ones