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Why do I hate myself so much?

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by evora, Sep 16, 2013.

  1. evora

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    This is a very general question but... I've no idea why. There's nothing wrong with me. I'm healthy, I don't have any disabilities, I look fine, I'm not overweight, I'm average height, I don't have any skin problems, or anything... What is wrong with me? How can loathe myself so much? And why? :icon_sad: I don't have any reason to, I don't understand why I can't be okay with the way I am. I don't even know what my problem is.
     
  2. elliezenny

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    I have no idea why you do but I feel exactly the same as well. I think a lot of it is to do with my mental health problems but I have hated myself all my life so I'm really not sure. If I find the answer I will let you know :frowning2:
     
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    Well, what is wrong with you? Do you feel out of place somehow? You have as much right to live and thrive as anyone else. (*hug*)
     
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    A lot of gay people have self hating, self esteem issues.
    It goes down to really core beliefs from childhood I believe.
    I hope you can figure it out and turn things around !!!
     
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    You have to figure out the thing you hate about yourself before you can fix it. Is anything going wrong in your life that you don't quite remember?
     
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    I don't know what's wrong. I'm doing the things that I love, I live in a city that I love... And I don't know anyone yet. University started last week and for some reason I feel like I should already have made lots of friends, but in reality, I only know a couple of people from classes and when they're over, we go on our separate ways...
    Sometimes all I need is a hug - a real one.:icon_sad:
    My self hatred is much more deeper than this, but I still think if I had friends, I'd feel better about myself.