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Goodbye Guys

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by shrimpz, Sep 26, 2013.

  1. shrimpz

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    Im finally going to do it. I wanted to thank you guys for all of the advice and help you've given me over the time i have been a member on this site. I owe you all so much, but i think its my time to go now. I love you guys and thank you for being there for me when no one else was.
     
  2. AwesomGaytheist

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    When you say "do it" do you mean suicide?
     
  3. shrimpz

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    Yes i mean suicide. sorry
     
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    Come on, buddy, don't do this. It's not worth it.

    ---------- Post added 26th Sep 2013 at 04:23 PM ----------

    What's going on? Why do you want to do this?
     
  5. shrimpz

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    it really is. ive never been so low and my life is a complete disaster.
     
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    Talk to me here. Your life's not a disaster and I promise you that you can get through this with some help. What's your plan?
     
  7. shrimpz

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    my life is a complete and utter disaster. i have no plan. im going for a walk tomorrow..maybe a train or a car or something to end it all
     
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    How are you doing? Are you getting help? Can you call this number? HopeLine UK – 0800 068 4141

    Tell us please, we want to know, why you think your life is a complete disaster.
     
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    Bud, common. D: Suicide is NEVER the answer to ANY problem. Why should you be able to choose to take your own life? Do you not see how many people you'd be hurting as a result of ending it? Suicide is a selfish, cowardly act; I know you are much better than that. Please tell us what's bothering you. :frowning2: It'd be such a shame to see such a good person go. There is SO MUCH left to live for. Be a fighter and be strong. Please. :frowning2:
     
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    Come on, bud. Please talk to us. Just let us know you're okay.
     
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    If you do it, think of all you'll leave behind. Do you REALLY want to hurt them?
     
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    Please don't do this, I'm begging you! Think of everyone who's going to suffer if you go through with this, it's not a way out or a release from your pain. You have to hang in there, there's so much to live for. Think of all the things in life that you'll miss, your life hasn't even started yet.
     
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    We are currently talking to the OP via PM. Thank you everybody for your concern and help!

    Lex
     
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    Thanks for the update Lex. I was getting really worried about him.
     
  15. shrimpz

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    ok so im not going to kill myself..but the police just came around to my house...seriously guys?
     
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    You say you'll attempt suicide, somebody's gonna take action.
     
  17. shrimpz

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    i was but i spent the last hour on the phone to my boyfriend and he made me see sense..just didnt have time to post on here before the police came knocking
     
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    Be grateful for the depth of caring from the people here. The depth of caring is going as far as taking this action, which may seem drastic to you because you knew what was going on, but to the good people here they were in the dark and that have gone to great lengths to ensure your safety.

    What and awesome bunch of people here in EC.

    And Shrimpz...you do matter :wink: you have just made a difference in a few peoples lives right here, so if you ever begin to doubt your value, come back to this discussion and see what people have done for you :wink:

    PEACE
     
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    Yes, seriously.

    We do take people seriously here at EC. We do want you to get to better places, and to hopefully live a kick-ass life. So when any of you are in trouble, we're going to do what we can to help out. We started talking via PM, but your last message to me didn't suggest you had changed your mind at all. And then you signed out. So we went into action.

    It's not an easy process. It's not like we have a "report potential suicide" button. It takes a lot of work, and a bunch of staff members jumped in to do what we felt we had to do. We wanted to make sure you were OK. And speaking for the group, I'm glad that you are. :slight_smile:

    Lex
     
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    Yes, seriously.

    30 years ago I had a friend who I didn't take seriously...