Do you know it when a guy was paying more attention or hitting on you? Do you feel anything? Like it? Hate it? None? How do you response when a dude was checking you out?
I always knew when a guy was interested, but never really invited the flirting that came with it. they would touch me and i would freak out, it was massively uncomfortable. although it was exciting to have someone be attracted to you, i didn't want anything past that. I alway had to come up with an excuse not to date. after a while i started to hate it.
mostly if a guys hitting on me or fancies me i just take it as a complement its hard to feel insulted, its when they dont understand that i dont like them or dont understand lesbian dont date or sleep with men that i get frustrated and sometimes i get frustarted that its only guy hitting on me but thats more cause women arent htting on me
I used to be completely oblivious to people who were flirting or hitting on me, then I would be blindsided when they asked me out. Now that I'm able to notice it a bit more, I find it flattering when men hit on me, but I know when to take a few steps back and let them know I'm not interested.
often i realise they are flirting but sometimes i dont. guys can just be friendly naturally and not flirt. when guys are super obv about it thats when i know ha. its flattering of course but i dont feel anything, i feel more like 'why cant the right gender hit on me instead' lol. i dont ever respond to the compliments or w/e i just smile/laugh awkwardly (i sound like a bitch.... gah), soon becomes quiet then they leave when i refuse a drink with them/wont take their number.
