Where did you meet your significant other? I haven't found success on dating sites. Also, generally when I go to gay clubs there are way more men and straight women than les/bi ladies. I wear a rainbow bracelet, but I still look really feminine and maybe that's why it's kinda hard for people to read me.
I met my girlfriend through the internet. On a site like this actually. I'm not very femme, but she was and I actually didn't know she was gay until we started talking. Maybe just talk to people, ask questions, get to know them. Don't try to change yourself to get someone.
Online. Um....don't laugh. ..it was craigslist. i didn't know she was femme, as neither of us posted pictures. But eventually we met (luckily neither of us were serial killers) and we hit it off. Been together over 3 years now
