Wanting to found an LGBT youth group, scouting members

So as to my intent: I have recently come out to one friend, and I am currently trying to identify as many members of the LGBT in my high school, in hopes of forming some sort of group. So first and foremost, any advice on starting an LGBT youth group in an somewhat oppressive atmosphere would be most helpful.

Now, I've been attempting to scout out the LGBT youth in my school but to little avail. But, I have noticed a rather particular underclassman boy -- of slight and short build -- who seems to favor wearing shades of pink, tight jeans, and feminine (as in Hello Kitty) backpacks. Now I realize the wearing of silly or "girly" accessories has been a sort of mock-culture among those of the "jock" group, but this child is not of it and seems genuinely to accept a feminine image, and I believe such a bold identity would be invaluable to an LGBT group. My question is how can I go about finding this child's identity, as I am extremely blunt and not savvy as to what is polite and impolite amongst the general LGBT. Obviously I would have to first acquaint with him, but how should I go about it??? Please forgive my obvious judgement by stereotype, but in our invisible community it seems some must rely upon stereotype to reveal themselves, or else I could be completely mistaken in this instance. Thoughts?

 

The group would be informal, as I doubt anyone in the education system would condone it. As for my out status, I plan to come out to many more friends and give them the OK to reveal my sexuality if anyone asks, as I gratefully do not have facebook.

The high school I attend can be best described as not hostile (as far as I know) but very bigoted and cliquish, so I'd just like to form more of a support group for my local LGBT where we could just sit about and talk, maybe schedule a movie night or something, just for those who find themselves excluded from the normal crowd.

 

That is an excellent idea, thanks!