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What should I do?

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by questionable, Nov 24, 2013.

  1. questionable

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    My friend who's at 7th grade confesses her love for me. We're really good friends. We met each other just months from now... We haven't talked about it that much yet and I haven't given a proper reply about it... Last time we talked about it I tried to make a way to escape that kind of topic and I even made some dirty jokes (which I usually don't do)
    to make her laugh and forget the topic.

    I don't really know what to say...
    She doesn't even know that I'm bi
    I don't want her to feel bad about herself because she fell inlove with a bi :/
    She's really a close friend of mine. I don't want to lose her since she's one of the best of my friends...

    Please help me.... :X
     
  2. WhiteShadows

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    Soooo, is the problem that you don't feel the same way about her?
    Just tell her, and say you're really sorry but it's the way it is
     
  3. Silver Sparrow

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    I think if you aren't interested in her, you should say so. If you are, I think it might be a good idea to gauge her opinions on bisexuality.
     
  4. questionable

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    I can't say that I'm not interested about her.
    I just don't know how to say that she shouldn't fall in love to a guy like me because I'm still finding myself...