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I have never kissed a another women so how do I know I'm Gay?

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by lovely lesbian, Nov 24, 2013.

  1. lovely lesbian

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    So I have never kissed another women so how do I know I'm a lesbian? This question might sound stupid but I have only kissed men when I was younger and have never kissed another women so I'm sorry for this question x
     
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    Because contrary to popular belief, orientation isn't just about the physical stuff. I bet you've been FRIENDS with women, maybe you find it easier to get along with them, I don't know. But whatever it is, you conveniently also think "I like these things about women, and I also kind of want to kiss them".

    What more do you need. :slight_smile:
     
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    Thanx for the advice the friend I have a crush I always think about kissing her but never going to happen x
     
  4. you dont have to have done anything to know. you just feel it, you know?
    some people do have to have some contact with someone to know and thats fine too. but just be you, it will all work itself out :slight_smile:
     
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    Thanx for the advice i always Imagine kissing another women in my dreams and it feels good and touching and things I always get turned on xxx
     
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    The same way straight girls know they're straight before kissing a guy, I guess...? I dunno, I kinda have the same question. =/ But logically-speaking, you shouldn't have to kiss a woman to know you're gay if everyone else knows they're straight without doing the same.