Hey all! It's my first post here to go easy :icon_wink Basically, I've been dating this guy for a while now, and it's been really good. We care about each other, and It's getting serious, but there's one area which is really confusing me. Sex. I know all about it obviously, but when we met, he introduced himself as a bottom. That was perfect because I'm more top, though I bottom every now and then. We also had quite a bit of sex when we first started dating. Since however, his sex drive has dropped, and he said that he never really has one after dating someone for a while. When we do anything sexual however, he never sucks my cock, rims me, but he expects me to suck his and rim him. He's also becoming more of a top when I do suggest sex, which just feels to me like he doesn't want to have sex and is using that as an excuse. That or I'm not a very good top. The problem is that I don't really get satisfaction out of just bottoming, I like cumming inside someone, orally or anally, that's why I top, and I'm not sure what to do. Any help would be appreciated! :lol:
Have you tried talking to him about the sex thing? Specifically that you would like some reciprocation and the need to trade off rolls so everyone is having a good time? Presumably there is a reason for this behavior shift. Can you get him to discuss what that reason might be and where he's coming from on this? Todd