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Relationship

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by puddlejumper1, Nov 25, 2013.

  1. puddlejumper1

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    Hey all! It's my first post here to go easy :icon_wink

    Basically, I've been dating this guy for a while now, and it's been really good. We care about each other, and It's getting serious, but there's one area which is really confusing me. Sex.

    I know all about it obviously, but when we met, he introduced himself as a bottom. That was perfect because I'm more top, though I bottom every now and then. We also had quite a bit of sex when we first started dating. Since however, his sex drive has dropped, and he said that he never really has one after dating someone for a while. When we do anything sexual however, he never sucks my cock, rims me, but he expects me to suck his and rim him. He's also becoming more of a top when I do suggest sex, which just feels to me like he doesn't want to have sex and is using that as an excuse. That or I'm not a very good top. The problem is that I don't really get satisfaction out of just bottoming, I like cumming inside someone, orally or anally, that's why I top, and I'm not sure what to do.

    Any help would be appreciated! :lol:
     
  2. AKTodd

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    Have you tried talking to him about the sex thing? Specifically that you would like some reciprocation and the need to trade off rolls so everyone is having a good time?

    Presumably there is a reason for this behavior shift. Can you get him to discuss what that reason might be and where he's coming from on this?

    Todd