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Today's the day....maybe

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by ThnksFrThMmrs, Dec 5, 2013.

  1. ThnksFrThMmrs

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    Hopefully in approximately 5 hours I'll be out. I was originally go with the whole letter idea, but I've finally settled on sitting down over lunch & talking about it with my mom. I really hope I don't chicken out. I plan to start out by saying something about all the news about Tom Daley, kinda to test the waters. Then hopefully I can move on to actually coming out.

    Wish me luck, I'm still not sure how she's going to react. The last few times she caught me talking to girls in a romantic sense, it didn't go well. But I really hope this time will be different. I don't want to be in the closet anymore.
     
  2. greatwhale

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    Good for you!

    The best way to deal with scary conversations is to say the hardest part first, everything else is way easier to deal with.

    Try this: "So I have something important to tell you and I'm feeling a little vulnerable right now, so here it is: I date girls (or any other way you describe yourself)". Mention Tom Daley after as the reason you were inspired to come out.