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I was this close..

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by maracont, Dec 8, 2013.

  1. maracont

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    Like many people have, I've had a crush on a good friend of mine thats straight. He is basically the ideal boyfriend for me, but it wasn't meant to be.

    Until I told him I was bisexual yesterday (someone didn't get the memo WOOPS last person to know) and he told me HE was bisexual. I was very happy at this and thought maybe there was something there but...
    He then told me he had decided not to date guys, the same way I have decided not to date girls, so I'm back to square one.
    But it's even worse now that I know he likes guys and :bang:.
    On the bright side I'm not that sad or frustrated, I just wanted to tell someone this.
     
  2. Mirko

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    Hi there! It's good that you wrote out what you felt you had to. In some ways, you are already starting to move on from it. Crushes will come and go, but know that you will find somebody who will return the feelings, and you will have the chance to be in a relationship someday.