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I don't like them back...

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by metoo, Dec 13, 2013.

  1. metoo

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    What do you do, when one of your aquantences really really really likes you almost to a level of infatuation, but you really don't like them, or even want to be associated with them, but they are in one of your classes, so you see them everyday?

    She's obsessed with me, and I have not idea what to do. I don't want to accept all her gifts and texts, but I really don't want to be mean to her because she already doesn't have many friends, and I don't want to to get depressed and go through what I went through.

    HELP!!! :bang:
     
  2. Foxface

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    well not being mean is fine, but being bold and honest about that you don't feel the same is important.

    Even more important is doing it soon before it keeps going too far. And don't lead her on as well which I am sure you know

    I hate to say it, but you have to be honest and soon

    Foxface