Can someone offer me advice on making the first move?

how funny for this to crop up

it depends i guess.
ive got many peoples numbers online and not met quite a few irl just kept it offline, sometimes its better that way. idk why just is as you can be friends with someone but you might not be very good in a real life situation with them. idk if that makes sense? ahha.

dont be too clingy and reply straight away.
if you feel youve got a lot in common if youve been taking for a few days or even weeks then ask for their number/social media

i think its normal to get excited at someone replying to you

i wait a month or two meeting irl. but ive given my number to a few girls within a week/few days of speaking to someone online if i feel weve got a lot in common/ive liked speaking to them.

somtimes things can just 'match up' like hey ive got x day off if youre free we coudl grab coffee or something and then they might be free too, but if not then it doesnt matter i think things just go at the pace they go if that makes sense, no right timing as such imo.

 

There's nothing wrong with expressing interest, as interest at this level simply means "what I've seen so far is appealing". You can either jump in with both feet ("I do find you appealing - would you be interested in going out on a date sometime?"), or simply nudge things forward a bit ("Would you be willing to swap cell phone numbers?"). You can always give a disclaimer like "I don't want to come across as too forward if you're not ready for anything yet".

Lex

 

Just let her make all the first moves and keep your fingers crossed that everything turns o[ut well

Nahhhh, just kidding. Then she'll rub it in your face all the time.

Anyways, best of luck girl! <3

 

hello!

i find that when i meet people online and i like talking to them, i'll just tell them that they're fun to talk to and ask them if we can chat offline via text or whatsapp.Then depending on what they say, we exchange numbers. Mind you, i'm looking to make friends, but it works the same way if your goal is to get her number!

Then based on how often you talk and how well you connect, you can ask her for her fb or whatever social media you guys use. I don't really look at that stuff as "making the first move" i look at it more as "going with the flow"

hope that helps, and good luck