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Ring?

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by Goodnyte, Jan 3, 2014.

  1. Goodnyte

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    My title may be a bit confusing in relation to my question, but in a same-sex relationship, especially among females, who gets the ring? I'm asking out of curiosity. At least, what would you do? Some have said both, others have said the proposee is the only one to get the ring. I know it is completely up to your partner and you, but I just wonder.
    Thanks in advance. :slight_smile:
     
  2. juliegt6

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    The way I view it, I'd like us both to have rings or neither. I'm the more outwardly femme of the two of us but I know she really would love one too!

    I make significantly more money than her and the big thing is that I don't want her to spend too much. I'd love for us to get matching rings and they don't even have to be valuable (matching stainless bands is good enough!), I just am honored she wants to make that commitment with me!
     
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    As long as I get one so I can show it off, I don't care! :3

    Seriously.

    Well a little joking...but I would show it off...lots...to everyone...even if they didn't ask...especially if they didn't ask...
     
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    I would want both of us because i would like to show off my ring to people and i would get her one so she can show off too :icon_bigg:eusa_danc
     
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    I like both of you answers lets face it all women like rings :slight_smile: I am thinking of having mine changed from a wedding band to having a diamond ring, although much smaller than the one I gave my wife. just something plain and with a small diamond on it. remember diamonds are a girls best friend ...
     
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    Not mine! Heaven help the person who buys me a diamond!

    I already know what ring I'd have and it has no stones. It's just silver with little wolf heads.
     
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    I should probably input what I'm going to do. I would like both of us to have a ring. Even though I am a bit more boyish personality wise and dominant, I have always dreamed of having an engagement ring to show off. Then, she would have one because I would hopefully do the proposing.
     
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    Can I just take this opportunity to say damn you all for making me think about wedding rings! Now I'll be stuck dreaming about someone proposing to me...
     
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    Lol. I'm sorry Ellia!
     
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    I'm not in a relationship, but I would want for us both to have rings.