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if I do this ,am I a asks hole for it

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by JakeSteven, Jan 3, 2014.

  1. JakeSteven

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    I had a guy check me out me out when I was working. I was wondering if next time will it be a bad move and be like can I have ur number?


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    The guy I believe is 18-19 years
    im a bagger at a Kroger
    he was shopping with his mom
    he was trying to hide that he was checking me out

    :bang::bang::bang::bang::bang:
     
  2. AKTodd

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    Some thoughts here:

    a) If his mom was right there, he's probably not going to be thrilled by you asking for his number in front of her, most especially if he's not out

    b) Your employer may have a policy against staff trying to pick up customers which could get you in trouble

    c) While you may think he's 18-19, you don't actually know and you may run afoul of trying to pick up a 16-17yr old who just happens to look older than he is.

    You could try smiling at him and/or making eye contact (without being hugely obvious) and see if he maybe comes back by himself and wants to strike up a conversation or something during which you can confirm his age and interest. Might be more of a chance there.

    Just my thoughts,

    Todd
     
  3. JakeSteven

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    Thanks man :slight_smile: