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Watching gay videos (Not Porn BTW)

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by Gazza123, Jan 7, 2014.

  1. Gazza123

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    You know the ones

    Boyfriend tags
    ---- surprises his boyfriend
    boyfriend vlogs

    Yep and what do all these have in common. Yes all the guys are in relationships and are all so cute and adorable and I am sooo mad cause I want a nice guy. Why oh why do I do this to myself?

    I know what I am doing when I watch them. I sadly sit there at my computer going 'Awww' and grinning like a cheshire cat on happy pills at how cute they are wishing I had the same. Anyways I digress.

    DO any of you do this? and not just through Youtube maybe you read fiction, watch tv shows, etc etc

    Whatever it is I wanna know so I don't feel so alone.
     
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    I've visited a few tumblr blogs dedicated to it rofl.
    I think most people do at some point. And yes - WHY ARE THEY ALWAYS SO ADORABLE?
     
  3. Gazza123

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    I know right! It's so annoying but yet I can't be mad at them
     
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    Along with roaming through Tumblr blogs for pictures of couples, I look up Youtube videos of proposals between two men or two women. Sometimes I shed tears when I watch them >.<

    I don't feel any animosity towards the couples either. My thought process is more like "aww that's nice, I would want that special someone someday too" and move on to the next thing, haha.
     
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    I do it all the time. I'm not mad at them its more of a "i want that" type of thing.
     
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    I believe that there are very few people who don't feel the exact same way. I don't even look for them; they look for me. Just a few days ago I was passing time on tumblr and I randomly found my way to one of the most adorable blogs I have ever seen.

    Long story short, I was very upset. I wasn't there for that! They can be cute on someone else's wall. I went to tumblr for a nice blend of comedy and pretension. I don't want to be invaded by collages of people being all happy and romantic. Not to mention, once you start looking you can't stop...
     
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    YES! I do this all the time. I have exams at the moment and it is a great way to procrastinate (also EC). I love those gay proposal videos, also any documentry on gay life, being gay etc. I am also really into the gay family values videos on youtube, but they are a little different. Anyway you're definitely not alone, I do it all the time, i think i may have run out of videos to watch so any suggestions would be good!
     
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    I avoid them like a plague. Sure, I can't stop smiling when I watch them, but afterword I just feel lonely.
     
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    I used to find it cute and enjoyable, now I just see it as a grim reminder of my loneliness.
     
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    All the time. They're so cute! And I usually take notice if there is a gay couple on a show I like or that I know people follow (for example, they're gonna have a lesbian couple on a Disney show, and even though I hate that channel, I'm watching it just for the lesbians).
     
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    This!

    And (sometimes) this!
     
  12. Totally agree with this. :frowning2:
     
  13. Gazza123

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    Yeah. I sort of agree with this.