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I'm confused

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by Andstillimhere7, Jan 19, 2014.

  1. Andstillimhere7

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    Lately, I've been confused about who I love. I like this guy, but he's straight and I love him, but I know that it's not going to work and the only reason that's happening is because there is no one to love me. There is this other guy who I like as well, but he's straight, but I want to say he's gay because he looks gay, but that's stereotype something that I'm avoiding. Now there is this girl who I talk to a lot and that I like, but I think I will be better with boys (she doesn't know I'm bi though). I need help, I'm so confused in who I love.
     
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    Male or female doesnt matter. Who do you have more feelings for?

    Answer that question.
     
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    Okay so when I'm with guys and I like hugging a lot I feel safe, loved, it feels nice and with a girl it doesn't feel the same. I'm in love with guys rather than girls.
     
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    So to me you seem to have your priorities straight and know who you feel most comfortable being with. So go with that and be happy.
     
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    No I have my priorities gay, not straight. But yeah I'm happier with guys, now to find the right one.
     
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    Never heard the term "priorities straight"?

    I wasn't referring to your orientation and I contemplated using a different term after I posted it.

    I do like your priorities gay line though.