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I get hit on by the same sex

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by Ashanti, Jan 21, 2014.

  1. Ashanti

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    Hi,

    Nearly every time I go to a Bar/Club or house party I get approached/hit on by men...
    I go to a bar to buy a drink and a random guy says "Oh excuse me could i buy you a drink" or they ask for my number...
    This has happened quite a few times when i go out and no girl approaches me which i find strange....
    I have even had other guys run away from me when i approach to buy a drink at the bar as they must think i am gay and they are homophobic...

    I don't want to be gay...but i think i could be BI..and when this happens all the time it pushes me to the gay side...

    Any advice?
     
  2. stocking

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    Would you like to trade I would love to get hit on my the same sex all time . because lots of lesbians would hit on me and i would love it :icon_bigg
     
  3. Kasey

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    Well its better to have suitors than not.

    If you are bi, then why not go with it? Don't be turned off if you are bi. I mean if they aren't your type or are jerks I get that, but think of it as compliment they hit on you.