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don't know if my friends roommate likes me. don't know what to do

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by Kodah, Jan 26, 2014.

  1. Kodah

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    My best friend has this roommate that is always super playful around me. He will always wind up laying against me when we watch a movie on the couch. Or give me a hug from behind. I can never tell if he is joking around though. I actually like him and don't know were to go from here. None of my friends know I'm bi either.

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    He also wants me to come down here and get a studio apartment with him I'm the spring
     
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    It definitely sounds like he's interested. I'd ask him out, or figure out for sure if he's bi or gay first.
     
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    Hi Kodah! I personally think that is pretty cute! Heehee! Harmless flirty is always fun!
    If someone would hug me from behind, I'd do the same thing as well. Or if he is laying against you on the couch, gently touch his face or something subtle. Let's see how he will react.

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    Hi Kodah! I personally think that is pretty cute! Heehee! Harmless flirty is always fun!
    If someone would hug me from behind, I'd do the same thing as well. Or if he is laying against you on the couch, gently touch his face or something subtle. Let's see how he will react. (!)
     
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    That's the problem. Haha. He has no clue I'm bi and I have no idea if he is. I've never been in this position before :frowning2:

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    Yea we go back and forth for what I interpret as flirting. Me hugging him back from behind when he isn't looking. Putting my arm aroynd him when he lays agaisnt me on the couch. Him touching my sides when we are in the elivator. We have even slept in the same bed a few times when we got piss drunk. But I've never been in a situation like this before and he has no idea I'm bi and I though he was straight.

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    He also wanted me to get a studio apartment with him in the spring.
     
    #4 Kodah, Jan 27, 2014
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