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Valentines' Rose?

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by Querying, Feb 1, 2014.

  1. Querying

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    I have a crush on a girl who may or may not be straight ( I have reason to believe she's bi, but IDK for sure).

    I want to send her a rose, because my school does a rose thing, like many schools, and there is an option for an anonymous sending, which I will choose, because I do not want to put her in an awkward position and/or out her (read: actually I just don't want to be outed)

    However, there is also an option of adding a message to the rose. She's a hardcore kpop fan, and once, someone posted on FaceBook a link to a kpop pick-up lines tumblr blog, and she commented something along the lines of 'OMG I SWEAR ANY OF THESE WOULD WORK ON ME'. Understandably, I am considering adding one of these to the rose.

    Is that too cheesy? Should I say something else as well? Please do advise me.
     
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    That sound cute as heck! :thumbsup: I'd send one of those things haha. I was thinking about that before I got to the part where you said you were thinking about it too.
     
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    OMG Please please please please PLEASE do that and make that girl's DAY! And it'd maybe make you feel good too heheh. So, NO it's not cheesy, and YES totally do it!
     
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    You should do it. It's sure to make her smile for the rest of the day.
     
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    It's a very sweet gesture and not cheesy. I kind of wish I had done a similar thing with a guy I had a crush on.
     
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    Alright, I think I'll do it.

    there are a couple I have to choose between (I said no to a lot of them because they make me sound like a freaking sexual predator)

    'Girl you must be SHINee or something because my eyes are always Onew.' or even just 'I've got my eye "Onew".'

    Or 'Rearrange my name and what do you get? 'U and I'
    that one isn't my name obv, it's a kpop person's, but yeah.

    And then 'Are you from planet EXO? 'Cause your body is EXOtic.'

    That last one sounds a bit creepy, and if she ever finds out it's me, well... Yeah. So I dunno what to take.
     
  7. do it omg, but the first two would be better imo. but its totally up to you! :slight_smile:
     
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    Thank you :slight_smile:

    Any other input?
     
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    I say go for it! I think it's very sweet

    And if, at a later stage, you decide to come out (if only to her), you could always quote the same phrase to her and wink. She should be able to do the math... :wink:
     
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    Damn that is the best idea. I hadn't thought about it that way...

    Any opinions on which one I should use, though?
     
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    I'd say it's between those two :slight_smile:
     
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    Alright, thank you!

    Anyone else that passes through here - don't be afraid to comment! Psychology is done and over with. Even the most inept can give me advice on pick-up lines. :wink: