I don't want to date girls that live far away from me but I'm thinking I might have no choice if I really like a girl , Plus I don't have a car so it will be hard for me to go see her and I don't have a cell phone . I want a girl that lives in my town or a least my state because I don't want my parents to get suspicious about me going to see another girl in another town or state over at night my mom might put two and two together but I do that with one of my friends that live a state over and my mom can't stand her because of it and my dad thought we were lesbians but my friend has a husband . I want to have a real relationship for once and not one of those long distance one where I have to wait years til we can be together . Is it limiting yourself in the lesbian dating world if your only looking for girls that live in your state ?
Yep, I think so. Especially if you live in a homophobe area like mine cause it's harder to find another a girlfriend. So, LDR is like the only option. There's skype and chat app that can be used in laptop Besides, waiting for someone is worth it when you finally meet them. That's what I think though. But, it also has a risk that your gf might cheat because of the distant. We don't know what they're actually doing. Trust and loyality plays the big part here. Sorry if I'm not that helpful.
That's what I worry about the cheating , I just want to experience what straight people get to and take for grated sometimes . watching a movie together going out on dates . I want all that .
I would but i'm too broke to live there plus I hate living in New york . Does this mean because I'm lesbian the only choice I have is girls that live out of state >.< ?
Not really xD just perhaps the possibility is lower. Maybe you should try searching a community in your area. Or ask your gay friends.
