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First date advice?

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by nicklenfent, Feb 20, 2014.

  1. nicklenfent

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    There is a girl in my class who was about the first to know I'm bi. I told her I kissed a guy and then we built up so I can talk freely about my sexuality with her. The thing is, a few months back she told me there was a friend of hers she'd like to introduce, saying I'd like him a lot in a very emphatic way.
    I only agreed to meet him now, because I'm in a better place and I trust her when she says he's a cool person and I'll like him, but I have never gone out with a guy this way, I never planned to hook up with guys any of the times I did. And I never knew who it'd be in advance too. And they didn't know they'd do it until it happened, understand? There was never this much time between the decision and the action.
    I know that on a first date I should be myself, what I should and shouldn't say, all that jazz because up until last year I only liked girls. But how should I act in this situation, I mean, he's not out in anyway either, and it feels kind of awkward that we both know in advance, and since the objective is pretty much see if we'll hook up, I'm kind of lost. Not to mention that all of my friends are pretty in touch with my life, and I don't want to make this noticed yet. Any advice?

    PS: the girl is 100% trustworthy and she wouldn't screw things up
     
  2. Rosepetal

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    if there is a fair go there and have fun be urself and if the guy is only after sex dump him immediately if u dont want it that is. good luck or a movie or arcade place.
     
  3. Ruby Dragon

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    Sounds ok so far. You wouldn't know until you went on the date. If you're not into hooking up with "random" guys then don't get yourself in a situation where it could happen. If you decide that you really like this guy then ask him on a second date and get to know him better. You know this already but just be yourself. Everything will work out ok in the end. If it's not ok, it's not the end :wink: