Okay so this Saturday, I'll be meeting this girl for drinks, it'll be my first date with another girl and I'm super nervousness I have no idea how to act!! She's mentioned how she can't wait to kiss me ect and I'm still worrying about the basics Has anyone got any tips :l especially because I'm a nervous talker Because we've been put in contact by friends so we've never met before, what if we're not compatible see I'm worrying about nothing already!!
First, keep calm (hard I know). A lot of shyness is self-consciousness, so the trick is to turn all of that conscious energy onto the other person: be interested in her and in what she's like. Notice what she's wearing, and how she talks, etc. It takes the focus off of you!
