Em...Hello, my name is Marina and i'm 16 years old... Well i don't really know what I am...I mean i think i'm some kind of a lesbian but i never had that kind of relationship with girls before. I had a few relationships with boys but i never liked them and i came to the conclusion that i only see them as friends. I used to like many male actors but i lost my interest about a year ago...and i started looking at female actresses instead and i keep wondering about having a relationship with girls. well i never had sex and i don't know if i want to do that with a woman... i'm just really confused...:icon_redf
Hey, glad you posted here! Its okay to be confused. Is there a councelor at school you can talk too? They would probably be more help than me but I think that if you are wondering there is a good chance you aren't totally straight. There isn't a rush to run out and figure things out. Its okay to sit with it a while. I am just coming to acknowledge that I'm gay but I've been married for the last 20plus years so you are way ahead of me. I wasn't brave enough to face things before now.
Welcome! The most important thing is to relax and not to worry about it too much. I think we all go through a stage where we are very confused. At 16 I was in the same situation as you, and the boys I had dated knew I was bi (although I am lesbian but at the time refused to acknowledge it). Don't rush anything, take some time to find yourself and don't panic if you're not sure. Sometimes it takes a lot of soul searching for us to really acknowledge and accept ourselves for who we are, not what we want to be. It will come to you, I am sure.
thank you for your replies!! i feel relieved now that i know other people feel like me! unfortunatelly our school doesn't have a councelor and i didn't know where to go for help that's why i joined this forum. i just wish i had someone close to me i could talk to. well, thanks again and i'll follow your advice!
