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I wonder if people would be better off without me

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by Beware Of You, Mar 25, 2014.

  1. Beware Of You

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    I something think my parents and others would be better off and they would move if I wasn't around anymore and that my boyfriend would meet someone else and forget about me.

    I don't know why I feel this way but I do so meh
     
  2. AKTodd

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    No, they would not be better off.

    Tell those feelings to shut up and go away.

    Todd
     
  3. Simple Thoughts

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    That's not true ^^

    That's just negative emotions clouding up your judgement. Nothing more. Don't let those thoughts get the better of you =3
     
  4. I struggle with the same thing.
     
  5. BelleFromHell

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    I used to get the same feelings ALL THE TIME and still do sometimes... ;_;
    I even contemplated suicide twice
    You're definetly not alone. I agree with Simple Thoughts.
     
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    They wouldnt, and neither would we. Try to push those thoughts away! The more you dwell on them the worse you'll feel.
     
  7. I am not the best source of advice at the moment.Not feeling all that great.Please do not dwell on these thoughts.I am attempting to look after myself again.Hope you manage to do the same.
     
  8. PatrickUK

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    How long have you been feeling like this? Do you have days when you don't?

    It's good that you've been able to tell us that you get these feelings too. The worst thing is to bottle it all up and keep it to yourself. There's a lot to be said for reaching out for support from like minded people who care. (&&&)
     
  9. Beware Of You

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    It comes and goes
     
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    I highly doubt that.

    If you were no longer around, I'm sure these people would feel and see the massive hole in their lives where you once were. Even if they don't realise it now.

    Everyone is special in their own way :slight_smile:
     
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    I'm pretty sure your friends and family would vehemently disagree with that. Perhaps you should talk to them about this...
     
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    Those feelings come to quite a few people it seems, including me. But even though they're not true (people would be crushed if they lost you) you ultimately have to live for yourself. You have been given the gift of life and nobody has the authority to take it or its benefits from you. So smile and stand tall. :slight_smile: