Cutting Off My Penis

My instinct is to say go to the doctors but I realise that probably isn't an option for you right now...

Learn to tuck, see if that helps.

 

I can only say that you are young and beautiful and that over a billion people on Earth wish they had what you have.

There is plenty of time for you to get on with life. And given the openness I see from you in here (on my first day in no less), it must be a quality experience ahead of you. Patience.

 

If you try to cut it off yourself, it will hurt a lot and put your life in danger.

If you put up with it for now, and get help from a gender therapist, eventually you can get a trained professional to cut it off with much less pain and very little risk to your health.

 

Perhaps it's just me, but this might be the most head-desk worthy thing I've read in a while...

I know what you meant by it, but the 'be thankful for what you have message' when addressing a problem like "I really cannot bare my penis" shoots quite wide of the mark I'm afraid!

 

Cutting your penis off would obviously be excruciatingly painful - it might seem like a good idea for a split second, but you would end up debilitated by pain, on the floor, crying, and bleeding - a lot.

For the time being, you're going to have to do your best to ignore it, and hide it as much as possible, and if it's any consolation, when I first saw your image, I thought you were biologically female (and quite pretty to boot).

(I'm not very good at this giving advice malarkey, so please overlook this post if it was completely unhelpful! It's worth a try though, right? :icon_wink)

 

Oh, honey, (*hug*) (*hug*) (*hug*) I know what you're going through must feel like shit right now, and honestly, I can't relate to it, but please don't hurt yourself. You are absolutely beautiful, and believe me, hurting yourself is definitely not the answer, and like Claudette said, it would limit your options even more. I'm not really an expert on trans* issues, but I'd say what Claudette and Ellia said about tucking/taping is possibly a good idea. Just please don't hurt yourself. (*hug*)

 

Please don't do this... Just because you don't want it as part of your body doesn't mean your body knows that. It similar (but far worse for you) to when I have acne, even though I want it off, my body place nerve endings there anyway, so it hurts to get them off - think of that pain being much bigger! I remember another MtF famous person regretting reassignment surgery (I know that's much safer, do that just fine by me, but is similar idea). You're a girl - nobody can take that from you except yourself. After all you don't need to have a lisp and take theater to be gay, right? You just are, you know it deep down and that's all that matters. Please don't maim yourself (even the parts you don't want to be part of yourself). What if this would harm later surgery? Whoever you marry wil hopefully love you because of your personality, not because of your private parts.

 

Hi!

I sent you a PM. I just wanted to let you know here though that what you're feeling is not as uncommon as you would think. Mother nature just pushes some of us in that direction in different ways and some harder than others. It's nothing to be embarrassed about and doesn't make you a less able or competent person. I'm glad you were able to just flat out ask here

I have some really great medical help that's affordable for me, and I don't make a lot of money. Taking things into your own hands costs more than some of that medical help, since it would likely land you in an ER.

This isn't something you have to suffer through alone. Just being able to talk about it with people that won't think less of you will probably help a lot

 

Please don't do this I know you don't like it but soon you will not have it anymore .:icon_sad::icon_sad:

 

Ouch!