I inadvertently discovered my classmates' opinion on gays

you can trust the student aid , since your both gay , talk to him if you feel like you can trust him

 

I have been in a couple of situations at school where people have made fun of some of the homosexuals at our school right in front of me, it is a difficult situation to be in because not only do those words hurt but they make me very vulnerable to want to come out in the heat of the moment.
The only people I trust are my closest friends. Do not let homophobic assholes scare you away from being who you are. There are people who will always accept you for who you are.

 

Once I went to a weekend church event and I overheard a few really good friends of mine talking about how gays were wrong and stupid and they were going to rot in hell (so... the usual.) and it really bit at me for a while. I didn't let it get to me though, and just pushed them out of my life

 

Just remember, their opinions mean nothing because... well, what the fuck do they know? They're a bunch of homophobic, bigoted, and probably insecure dickheads. The opinions of people like them mean nothing to me, and they shouldn't mean anything to you either. You're better than them.

 

Sometimes people make fun of gays just because it's a common thing to do... and they actually have no problem with them at all. So it doesn't necessarily mean they hate gays, they might just be conforming to social bullcrap...

Anyway, you can try and talk to the student aid, or any accepting people you know. Don't be scared to defend gays if they talk any shit about LGBT people. Defending LGBTs doesn't mean you're gay, and just tell them they're stupid to say that if they do.

 

Just tell the principal that a group of students were making fun of the student aid (be sure to ask to be an "anonymous source") and hopefully that will put homophobes in their place.

 

Your classmates can't ALL be stupid. You'll find someone to trust.

 

Then find some real friends. o.o

I went to a wedding with my fiance for one of his female friends from childhood. She used to have the hugest crush on him but he's known since he was 12 that he was gay and never returned her affections. Still, at the wedding, she said as part of her toast, "I want to welcome my best friend and the man who turned him gay!"

My fiance was LIVID. I had to drag him out of the hall and calm him down and convince him to let it go. Straight people can say really dumb, hurtful things without thinking about who they might be hurting.

 

I'm so sorry that happened. Is there a GSA at your school that you can go to?