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Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by UpliftingDock, Apr 6, 2014.

  1. UpliftingDock

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    Hi there, i would like to have my profile picture as a picture of me but i feel like i look a bit to ugly or people would make fun of the way i look.
    I have way to many freckles
    i wear glasses
    have horrible hair
    and i think people would make jokes!
     
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    Nobody on here is going to make fun of you for the way you look. This is the last place on the internet where anyone would do that, I can absolutely assure you.

    And chances are, you're probably a lot better looking than you give yourself credit for.
     
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    i look like this
     

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    You're actually really cute! :slight_smile: I don't think you're ugly at all. Don't worry and use that picture as your profile picture (if you still want to do so, obviously), because nobody is going to make fun of you :slight_smile: they wouldn't have any reasons to do so, and even if they did, none here would make fun of someone because of their appearance.
     
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    Thank you, for your positive response BB
     
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    Appearances can be deceiving so be deceiving about your appearance.

    Freckles are sexy

    Pretend you're wearing contact lenses when you take the picture

    frame the picture so your hair is not in it

    Real people aren't often good looking. Be real.
     
  7. UpliftingDock

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    dude i want my entire face in the picture.
     
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    Okay, so I'm 38, which makes me quite a bit older than a lot of you and I also wear glasses (as you can see), and when it comes to hair styling... well, let's not go there. So far, nobody has said anything unkind. It's kind of nice to be able to see the person behind the words (but it's a personal decision).
     
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    Hey, don't seat it.

    We are here to support each other, not judge each other.

    Just for the record though, there is nothing wrong with how yup look.

    Happy days :slight_smile:
     
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    You look like a good looking young man, not much different than my students.

    By the way, glasses are awesome and there is a really good chance I have way worse eyes than you do. Even if I didn't need glasses I'd probably still wear them.

    Also you're 13, you will still grow and mature and change your appearance. So take it easy on yourself.

    But turn your picture up the right way so we can see you without tilting our heads.
     
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    Mate! You're not bad looking at all :slight_smile: The picture you got is great, just rotate it the right way up xD
     
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    I think u mean don't sweat it radioactive bi. Anyway you're not ugly! So what if u wear glasses? A lot of people for some reason now a days wanna wear glasses. Freckles fade off as u get older. If u don't like your hair then grow it out and try something else with it. But seriously you're not ugly and even if u were we wouldn't judge u :slight_smile: remember this is a support group and if u ever need to talk to anyone of us u can just message us on r walls :thumbsup: also I know this is random but I have the Same name as u :slight_smile:
     
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    Aw your only 13!, your not ugly don't worry :slight_smile:
     
  14. First of all, you definitely aren't ugly. And secondly, I highly, highly, HIGHLY doubt anyone on this site would go out of their way to call you ugly. Keep your chin up.
     
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    As 13 year-olds go, I think you're pretty cute. No reason to worry. You'll start to look more handsome in a few years.
     
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    Oh, and by the way... I reckon freckles are super cute xD
     
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    I think you look like a nice kid! :slight_smile: The more confident you are in yourself, the less people will dare pick on you, so keep your chin up!
     
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    I will make fun of your picture.

    Is everyone in the UK sideways? I always knew the UK were a stoic sort of people, but to have to live sideways, it must be difficult. Is it because of your socialistic government? Do they tax people who live right side up? Are you sharing an apartment with a family who lives on the floors while you live on the walls?

    I once was in England and I went to a resturant and they sat other people down at the same table as us. We struck up a conversation with the newcomers, but later I was told I was supposed to just ignore them. Do you do that as you live on the walls? Just ignore the other people you share your apartment with?

    Or is there an entire society of sideways living people who live side by side with right side up people. Do you face discrimination? Because calling them "right side up" would imply you are "wrong side up". I would be mad about that.

    Or maybe my browser just loads your picture sideways. Not sure.

    Any rate, Ya look normal to me. Mostly because I have that haircut and those glasses. Except my glasses have a pink tint. I just like the whole "rose colored" glasses thing. Your nose looks much better then mine, however.

    Important safety tip: Don't stop a baseball bat with your face. :wink:
     
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    Thank you guys.
    I'm going to take a better picture and have it the right way up now :grin: