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Lost My Crush

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by bigbiboy95, Apr 10, 2014.

  1. bigbiboy95

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    I have known im gay for 10 years but always afraid to tell anyone. 7 years ago I met this beautiful boy named Dan. He was gay. He is the most beautiful person in the world and I have fancied him for the past 6 years.

    recently I came out and told him im gay and ive fancied him, long story short. Hes blocked me of every social networking site, blocked his number. Ive completely lost my crush.
     
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    Very sorry to hear that. :/
    I can't explain why he'd do that, but the bright side is that you no longer have to tempt yourself constantly with a straight guy you can't have. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    It just hurts that I was hoping he be helpful and accepts me for who I am, obviously not
     
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    Oh dang- I know that this is the most textbook response but...

    If he did that to you now, at least he didn't do that to you if you had gone out. That would have made it much worse. And in short, do you really want to go out wit ha person who is as shallow as that?

    Don't worry though, it's amazing you have known for ten years, so something tells me you'll find your way c:
     
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    Why did he do that? He was openly gay when you met him, no?
     
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    Yeah he was openly gay
     
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    Wow, that's really messed up, I'm sorry about your woes.