So my psychologist(that I've had since the end of January) doesn't know I've had a boyfriend(January 22nd - April 7th). He also doesn't know about my bisexuality. I know I should probably tell him about both of them, but everytime I try, there's this fight inside my head: "tell him!" "no, don't!" "*** just tell him NOW!" etc. And then I just end up staring at the wall and NOT TELLING. I've been troubled by this for two weeks already and it annoys me. But I just can't tell him. I can't get the words out of my mouth. ---------- Post added 13th Apr 2014 at 01:32 AM ---------- Help would be very appreciated...
Your scared right?? Have you tried telling him through the phone?? One thing to try is.. Make your mind up about telling him, and don't think about it until your sessions starts. The more its on your mind the more you sink.
A good psychologist won't judge you, and it's not like they'll tell, hon. Just tell your doctor. If some of the issues troubling you are tied in with one or both of those issues, it will be easier to find the root of those issues when he knows them.
