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Needs To Stop

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by ZenMusic, Apr 29, 2014.

  1. ZenMusic

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    Ok so I have a friend who always griefs my other friend who is a goth for being a goth, akes jokes about self harm and it's doing my head in. She bought in a picture of a goth who was kicked to death by chavs for being who she was.How can I get him to stop?
     
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    Is it affecting the goth friend badly?

    I'm guessing you must have already tried talking to him about it and explaining that he should be more accepting of others. If he isn't listening I think you need to handle it more severely. Self harm and things aren't things to joke about. I think the goth friend should definitely cut off contact with this friend, and you should tell him you will too, if he doesn't stop.
     
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    I like that idea as well.
     
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    "You know what goths don't do? Shame other people for life choices."
     
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    I'd just told him yesterday, and he said he didn't mean it. I'm not sure wheter to tell Krysta to ligten up or to ttell Bailey to stop.