Am I gay based on these quick points? Help please!

If you've bottomed, and enjoyed it enough that it's still your go-to, then yeah, I'd say you're not straight. Maybe you're an exclusive bottom, maybe you enjoy being "dominated" (to whatever extent), maybe you have a thing for "masculinity", maybe all of the above. But yeah, I'd say you're at least bisexual there. At least, that's the easy one-word answer.

Lex

 

Bisexual maybe do a 3 sum with a girl and a guy and see if that works out for u.

 

I don't know about actually HAVING a threesome, but if you were to think about a threesome with a guy and a girl, who would you see yourself paying attention to? That give you a bit of a clue.

 

Sounds like you're bisexual to me if you still have genuine sexual attraction to women even if you prefer being with men, though most likely male-leaning bisexual. If I were you I would probably focus on getting with a guy but still be open to women as well, but it's up to you and how you feel all in all.

 

Why are you so worried about your label? Just do whatever you feel you want to do, try seeing If a woman will dominate you with a strap on and see how that gets you going. I mean it's obvious you like being dominated. You say you preference is strongly towards women, just do what comes natural.

 

I'm guessing bisexual.

 

Only you can decide who you are. I mean, we can all take guesses based on the limited info you've given us. We don't really know all the nuances of your personality. You have to look inside and discover for yourself. If you only like same sex, your gay. If not, you may be bi. Remember being bi involves bing attracted to all genders but not necessarily in the same way, at the same time or to the same degree.

Take some time for inner self reflection and think about who you really are attracted to. Only then, will the answer come.

Happy days

 

Oh come on he would be perfect doing a 3 some it would be great! :icon_bigg

 

Gay, straight, or bi is determined by our commitments, not by our genitals. Sexual attraction is only part of the game. Which gender(s) can you fall in love with? After love can you sustain a relationship with a guy or girl long term? Some people have the answers to these questions without ever having to think about them while others like yourself need to do some sorting out. Don't let it get you down, you might have some interesting adventures ahead. And if you end up being bi the possibilities are endless.

 

Sounds like bi to me.

 

try bottoming for a woman using a strap on, maybe that is the perfect position for u.

 

Welcome to the bi club.

Here's your ID card: http://www.bimedia.org/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/idcardthumb.jpg

Haha but in all seriousness, you do sound at least bisexual. Focus less on labeling yourself and more on what makes you happy

 

This!

 

If there's one thing I've learned about sexual attraction based on my experience is that, for those of us bi or pansexual, it doesn't always take the same form between the genders. And there's nothing wrong or "inauthentic" about that!

I elaborate on my experience here.

 

You come across as bisexual