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Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by monagirlk, May 2, 2014.

  1. monagirlk

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    Hi there

    I have always been attracted to girls but never had anything with a girl since im judging my self to much abt that... and the thing that confuses me is that i have sex with guys and i like it but i cant find myself being in relationship with a guy....none knows abt this i have told no one i feel embarrassed to say anything abt it, scared that ill be judged and bullied ...wat will be the first step to stop killing myself from inside and do something abt it ? :confused:
     
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    Well since u've had sex with so many guys I think that makes u 20% cooler. Also I'm not really sure what your asking if your wondering about getting judged about being a bi sexual on here u won't u might in public but c'mon all girls r bi.
     
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    well i got wat you r saying but im alittle more into girls than a regular girl and if it was that simple i wouldnt come on this site and write that :/ so ...
     
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    Well then u my dear friend r a bisexual with a preference for girls but honestly don't label yourself just be who u want to be and not care what other shit heads have to say bc as long as u hold your head up high every single day and just not care what other people think well nothing is more beautiful than that.
     
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    yes thats so true, im trying to hold my head up high its kinda hard thoo bc people are trying to push u hard as they can and it makes me feel bad ...
     
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    U know what when someone does that to me when they try and be mean to me I crush them! Yes it's not always the best strategy but hey if u think you're going to bully me aw no that ain't happening. And let me tell u something if anyone tries to hurt u u tell them off and u bring up something bad that's happened to them so they leave u alone. So this one time someone said do u see how gay he is? I went up to him and said so how's your parents divorce going pretty good? Ya and then I laughed and walked away yes it was so mean but I will not be emotionally abused by dumb people. Another girl said I fucked donkeys in my free time and I was selling my ass on the street in a speedo and I said u fucking fat ass bitch! (I was so mad my blood was tingling.) I felt bad but I felt I did the write thing bc now she doesn't even say anything to me so i won't have to hear her bull shit. Now anyway baby girl u hold your head up high and u will see how it is easier if someone gets in the way kick them in the balls or the vagina and say no! Enough is enough! Your done! Then walk away and still have your head up high

    If u ever wanna talk to me about anything message me on my wall (*hug*)
     
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    yes i know we should be more strong but not everyone of us has the b.lls to confront the big mass of people judging us for who we are :frowning2: sad but true
     
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    Hey if someone hates u bc of who u naturally r give them a real reason to hate u. As I always say to narrow minded homophobes don't judge the character judge the performance.
     
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    omg this life sucks big time !
     
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    But NCY is such an accepting city y won't they accept u?