I'm confused... I thought I wanted to date / relationship

Hey

So... I'm kinda confused

I thought I wanted a relationship, to date and do all that. But when the opportunity to date came about I just didn't want to. Admittely this opportunity came about through a certain app but I just really don't want to. I enjoy being single, doing my own thing, going to work, socialising with friends etc etc.

I just like being single. I know I moan well maybe uses to moan about being single but it just seems better this way. I like it. Is that weird? Can I not just stay single instead? I'm happy. It's just a feel the need for a relationship and that is what everyone expects.

 

I totally relate to you.

Honestly, I feel like I get those bouts of loneliness and that I NEED to date or find a significant other.

But I also feel like being single is so much better. More freedom and independence. I like having a social life, but I also don't want to see the same person every day. I feel when you date someone (officially), they constantly call you, ask you on dates, and are constantly in your face, when It's like no. Leave me alone, please. I mean, I can handle seeing a significant other around twice-three times a week, but otherwise I'm a very busy person that needs more me time than anything. And I feel like most people in relationships (especially early on) can't respect that, and need you every hour.

Feel free to enjoy being single. I'm loving it!

 

I agree