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Help!!!

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by Countrygirl545, May 11, 2014.

  1. Countrygirl545

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    Hi i am Brittany and im 15 and i really need your help. I have recently been questioning my sexuality(i am thinking i am lesbian). I thought i was bi a while ago but my dad convinced me i was straight so for a while i did not think about it. But for a while i have been fantasizing about women. I also get really turned on by women(not by men honestly at all). I tend to look at women without even knowing and turn away really quickly.I am honestly am embarrassed to say this but i tend to look at women's boobs and butts when i am out with family. Also it doesn't feel right when i say a guy is cute if that makes any sense. I also get uncomfortable when my friends talk about guys because i think i may be gay. Iv also had dreams about making out with girls. i also think i may have a crush on one of my best friends. I am afraid to be gay because my brother( I'm closest to him) doesn't approve of gays. Also part of my family who i am also close to is religious as am i and i don't think they approve either. I know i know myself more than anything but i just wanted somebodies opinion.


    PS sorry this is so long and all over the place. i wanted to get as much in as i can remember
     
  2. mobrien1993

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    From what you have said I would say you are gay. But you don't have to be so focused on putting a label on your sexuality. As for your family they should love you kno matter who you love but I know that it doesn't turn out that way for everyone unfortunately.but remember you don't have to come out until you are ready.
     
  3. Opheliac

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    By the sound of it, I think you are lesbian, yes. You said you thought you were bi a while ago... how long ago was that? Were you having the same kind of feelings then?