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Dumb question...

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by RoyalNight, May 15, 2014.

  1. RoyalNight

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    So i cut the selves of one of my old shirts if my parent's new they wouldn't be happy because i'm a female and they don't want a shirt to be fucked up. I never got to do this before and i feel like iv'e never felt before over something so little and so dumb. But i feel like i'm me like iv'e always wanted to feel. I'm actually upset thinking about that.
    Growing up they always assumed i was trans and i'm not. :frowning2: They never allowed me to wear clothing from the men's and even now that i'm a adult i can't move away and have to hide the shirt because i'm "Scared" what they will think or say. I wanted to ask why it is that my emotions are going wild over something so little and dumb?
    Why is it that i feel alone with this, have you felt the same ever? :help: i actually feel ashamed but very happy i because i feel like me.
     
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    Are you just saying you want to wear short sleeved shirts? They make those for women I think, right?
     
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    Lol. But cutoffs can also be quite feminine, and have a sort of no-nonsense, rebel look to them. If they value that shirt over your desire to express yourself through honestly innocent clothes, they need to rethink their opinion of that.
     
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    you cut the sleeves off of like, a t shirt to make a tank top?

    ---------- Post added 16th May 2014 at 12:22 PM ----------

    that seems a little normal to me, lol. I have mutilated shirts to redesign them...