soooo...... I have a friend who I may or may not might be maybe in love with and every year my parents take me to a beach house further south and this year I'm allowed to bring a friend, I'm unsure if I should invite him though because otherwise I don't know who I would invite, I don't have many friends but if I do invite him and I do something stupid then I'm both lonely and out to the world when I'm not even sure if I am indeed. Need a little bit of help on this one EC:help: Love from Aus UC
I would say invite him! Life is about taking risks!! If you don't, you'll continue wishing you did! Don't think about what's going to happen in the future and worst case scenarios. That's how anxiety develops. Live for the moment and don't worry about things. You never know, you could have the time of your life and maybe learn some things about yourself and your friend along the way
How long do you have until you leave for the holiday? I think you should definitely invite him. There's no harm in a friendly gesture If it's still months away, you should invite him around to your house a few times as well to spend some more time with him Don't worry about doing anything stupid... I mean, don't just come right out and say "I like you" out of nowhere... but as you get to know him more you'll be able to judge better if you should tell him. How close are you to him? Let us know how it goes
I've known him for... oh wow 5 years and he's been sick away from school the past week, Interesting how the universe likes to screw with me
Definitely invite him Let us know how it all goes PS: Love back from another Aussie (although currently I'm in Costa Rica xD)
Well I invited him... and he said yes. Sooo yeah I am kinda out of stuff now so hi, bye and I hope that you are all well
Awesome! In the meantime, maybe ask him to do something outside of school sometime? How long before you go? Is it the summer holidays? In that case you have heaps of time xD
Well, long story short... Life got in the way and I couldn't get on here for a while buuuut I just got back from the holiday and we had fun and we ate poptarts and I didn't do anything stupid (I think) and we watched CSI. That was about it. Glad I invited him because my mother was being difficult for something new and he made the time somewhat bearable and allowed me to go into a bedroom with him by ourselves and watch CSI in the same bed with our own heater because it's cold, so so cold, (In separate sleeping bags on a double bed mind you, nothing happened in that regard) Thanks for all your advice, I'm glad I took your advice :icon_bigg:icon_bigg:icon_bigg
INVITE HIM! If he is giving vibes, you can tune in to the frequency and proceed from there. If not, just have a jolly good time with your friend! I once read a romantic book between two guys, one a friend at the other one's beach house. Good times. Seriously, bring him
