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Girl on girl courting rituals...how??

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  1. Ebro1122

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    So I was going for a walk today and out of the blue a really cute petite girl batted her eyes at me and kept walking. Without a seconds hesitation I chased behind her and got her phone number. She told me her named and revealed that she is quite younger than me. I was *totally* surprised that a girl like her would find me attractive. Well, anyway, needless to say, I am excited but also lost as to what to do next. I am new to girl/girl dating and need some advice. Please help, I don't want to screw this up!
     
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    I'm just commenting to mark this thread, since I'm also very new to this.

    Edit: Think of me as a fellow pupil.
     
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    Omg, I so want advice on this too!
     
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    You call her up and ask to meet her for dinner somewhere. There is no specific courting rituals to speak of, but if you ask her out, be prepared to pay for dinner, unless she insists on paying half. If she is much more feminine than you, watch your manners. Most gals like this. If you have a good time after your date, make sure to let her know and make sure she has your number. I would ask her if you can see her again, if she say yes, then you are in! Second date, somewhere else quiet, a coffee shop of again a dinner. You want to get to know her. If you don't have money, a nice walk on the beach, a picnic in the park or a bike ride even is nice. The key is you want to get to know her. A sweet kiss on the second date is about right. No stuffing your tongue down her throat, but a soft appreciative kiss.

    Hope this helps.
     
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    Yes, she appeared to be very femme (done up hair, eyelashes, makeup). I'm more masculine of center so I presume that I have to be dominant one. I don't mind this role but I'm afraid that I won't be butch enough. I'm not looking for a relationship right now, just someone I can have casual romantic, friendly and "sexy" encounters with.

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    Ill make sure I don't go too fast.
     
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    Wow that's lucky, you should totally call her call her back !!!
     
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    Holy WOW you are lucky....I wish girls would just land from the sky batting their eyes at me!!
    Maybe I should try the eye-batting thing, but I'd do it all wrong and end up scaring people away!

    Anyway, just give her a text or a call. The start of the convo would probably be really adorable ... "Hey! Is this the girl from the park....?" GOOD LUCK and keep us posted :wink:
     
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    I've never been the aggressor in these sort of situations.... ;u; most of the time its girls either ignoring the heckie out of my gay self or pOUNCING ON ME WITH FEROCIOUS LESBIAN CLAWS AND ITS AWESOME.
     
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    Being a femme sucks no one knows if your gay butches are lucky they just walk outside and women are hitting on them :icon_sad: I would try going butch but I have such a baby face it will never work :bang: Plus it's not who I truly am
     
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    Ditto...except I'm a bit of a tomboy too :/
     
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    Makes me want to stamp lesbian on my fore head :bang:
     
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    I present masculinely most of the time and I have a baby face. But it really is about what you are on the inside. Another question..so should I wait to call her (in a few days) or do it tomorrow? I currently am broke so I don't know what to buy her as of now. I want to be a gentlewoman darnit!
     
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    Maybe you could try wearing more rainbows...? Cliche I know, but it was the best I could do
     
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    I need rainbow jewelry , I'm gonna try
     
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    Well definitely wait maybe a day or two...you don't want to seem desperate. That turns people off sometimes. And you could get a simple flower or something...That'd be cute. Or make a bracelet :slight_smile:

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    Make it :wink: That's what I'm doing :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    I'm a femme on the inside so I can't do the masculine thing it's not me . I'm too girly inside and out I do have sometimes where my mom says i act like a masculine but I'm all femme .
    I think wait a few days til you get some money but not too long you know

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    I don't know how to make it but I was gonna buy some is that bad , I was gonna buy some rings and stuff
     
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    I don't know how to make it but I was gonna buy some is that bad , I was gonna buy some rings and stuff[/QUOTE]

    No, of course not! Buying it is good too! I was just saying if you didn't want to spend money and you have thread lying around the house, you can search up on YouTube how to make rainbow friendship bracelets :wink: They're super easy and cute :slight_smile:
     
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    More femmes should do what that girl did to me today. She was direct and made it clear that she was interested. It is really awesome when a girly girl takes initiative. I just fear that she might be too young for me. She's 19 and I'm going to be 27! What do 19 year old girls like??
     
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    I don't know much about what 19 year old girls like but maybe get her some flowers and chocolates or something :confused:
    Yeah we should be we'd get more girls i'm just too chicken to do it plus I have a hard time telling if girls are femme lesbians like me
     
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    I'm sure she'd be happy with anything! If she's laid back like I am, then you're good with whatever :wink: I'd say get her something that you would be happy receiving yourself :slight_smile: