I feel guilty after watching gay porn...

I don't feel bad when I watch it

 

Why?

 

Don't feel guilty! It's totally normal!
Don't feel bad about yourself, because gay porn is definitely normal compared to some of the porn that's out there!

 

Gay porn is perfectly normal! I personally love it. There's a lot lot worse stuff out there. *shudders*

 

Don't be ashamed if you really like it, that's just who you are and what you're naturally turned on by.

Anything is okay as long as it's legal and you're considerate to others about expressing your turn-ons. Now go back and shamelessly enjoy your gay porn!

 

How do you feel viewing straight porn? I used to think I watched gay porn because I was raised not to make women sex objects. I guess i thought it was okay to make my own gender a sex object. I used to feel guilty about watching it too because of my religious teachings. I now know that I watched gay porn because I was gay.

So you may be wrestling with that notion more than porn itself. I do know we can get addicted to porn and it can become an obsession just like other things in life. Just watch out for that.

 

I watch straight and gay porn and don't feel guilty afterwards for me it's just porn , getting off it isn't something you should feel bad about but i think the reason you feel bad is the standard society hold straight men to . Porn is just meant to get people off it doesn't tell your orientation

 

I know how you feel, I feel somewhat guilty about watching straight porn due to the rampant misogyny. I also kind of feel like the fact that any porn star has sex for money is sad. That's why I mostly read erotic literature instead. None of the people are real, so no guilt. And when I'm watching porn, it's hard to know the emotions going through their minds, but reading I do.

 

I sort of attempted pictures, but no... it felt so lame compared to my imagination. So I'm glad I didn't jump into the depths of porn right away because that would've ruined me emotionally. I'd rather do these things with someone instead of watching it being done by others (for money, let's not forget that!)

 

Most likely you aren't quite comfortable with the fact you like looking at men (or at least are able to masturbate while watching men). Porn has nothing to do with your orientation but if you are gay/bi there may be outside influences that make you ashamed of watching it.

Having grown up with my dad it took me until my late 20s to begin to admit to myself that I was gay and was 30 before I accepted it. I still haven't told my parents! Seriously if I was listening to Prince growing up my day would make the "who farted face" and say something like "Ewww why are you listening to that queer for?". Hell I was 8 I didn't know what a queer was! I just knew I liked "Raspberry Barrett" and if he hated queers so much I damn sure didn't want to be one!

I used to feel ashamed of myself every time I even looked at a guy "that way", but as I have become more comfortable with being gay the shame has disappeared and it just seems normal. Hell now if I see straight porn I'm momentarily mesmerized by the boobs just because they are something I'm not used to seeing but the only time I even think about sex is after the guy pulls 'it' out.

 

Well at least it's not something worse. Gay porn, on all scales, is pretty normal compared to the real messed up stuff in the deepest, darkest parts of the internet.

If you were watching child porn or horse porn or something you should be concerned.
You weren't though, so no need.

Gay porn is normal. Watch it as much as you want, just don't let it get in the way of your life and you'll be fine.

I used to feel that way then I accepted being gay and I became comfortable with the associated porn.

 

It's okay. Like other people above have said, I never actually watch porn because the people are just paid to do it and that makes me feel kinda sad. I prefer reading yuri lemons (girl on girl fanfiction) because it's not real and I can imagine it. Plus, you kinda know what you're in for if you know what I mean.

 

I feel the same way after I cum. I delete my gay personal sites but the next day I’m watching again and talking to guys or transgenders. I get so excited watching but as soon as I cum I’m upset. What’s that all about?