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Lesbian bar alone: good idea? Bad idea?

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by wanderinggirl, May 22, 2014.

  1. wanderinggirl

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    Has anyone gone to a lesbian bar alone? Is it a good way to talk to cuties and hang out or is it creepy and weird? I don't know anyone who would go with me to one, I have only straight friends... :tears: (jk i love them)
     
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    I'm in the same spot I don't think it's creepy or a bad idea I don't have any lesbian friend I have one gay friend but he doesn't seem to want anything to do with me so I guess I'll go alone .
     
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    Thanks Stocking. I live in the city and I feel like there's all this nightlife, and not like I really want to be in the "scene" but I think it would be a lot of fun. What's going to be your strategy for tackling it alone? I'm not great at approaching people, I'm thinking of maybe joining in on a pool game or something. I don't know if that would be weird or not.
     
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    Well for me now I'm doing something during the day time I'm not a night life person but I usually show up early to places so I wouldn't be too nervous . Your welcome by the way
     
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    AS long as you feel safe, by all means go out to one and see how you feel. Going to a bar alone isnt as good as going with friends but it beats just hanging out by yourself :slight_smile: