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is he a true friend?

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by iamjustababy, May 30, 2014.

  1. iamjustababy

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    So my friend one day asked me "do you think I'm special?" And I said well yeah I think of you as a brother most of the time. So after that we started to call each other bro and sis, well one day we bother we bored so I said "wanna play random questions game?" He said sure so we started to play. After a while he said "to be honest this entire time I've been trying to see if you love love me" (his gf has been thinking that I like him for a while now even though I don't) after that we didn't talk for a day or two and I'm wondering if he is a true friend or was just hanging out with me to make his gf happy :/
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    He's probably still you're friend
    Good luck (*hug*)
     
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    Were you particularly close friends before this?
     
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    I'm sure they were
     
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    We were fairly close, but not like best friends
     
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    I think he might possibly have been testing you like you said, for his girlfriend, but that doesn't mean he isn't your true friend. Maybe he's busy with something so he isn't finding time to talk to you.

    Whatever the case may be, I hope it works out for both of you.