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I want to explore my feelings but I don't know how

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by chatoyant, Jun 1, 2014.

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  1. chatoyant

    chatoyant
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    Hi,
    I'm a female teenager and thinking that I may be bisexual but I am not sure. I don't want to come out about it until I'm sure of what I am but I know that I am definitely having feelings for both genders both sexually and emotionally. I have never been in a real relationship before. If I want to test my feelings about guys that could be relatively easy but I want to see how I feel about being with a girl but I don't know how! There's barely any open lesbian or bisexual girls at my school and if I don't know if a girl is straight or not how am I supposed to test how it is to be with a girl... It's just really frustrating because I see a lot of girls at my school that I could see myself being in a relationship with but they are all either straight or closeted. Does anyone have any advice for me?
     
    #1 chatoyant, Jun 1, 2014
  2. Maeve

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    I'm in a similar position. I've dated guys before, but never girls. I'm shy and I'm really not sure how to go about finding a girl to date. I'm in college, so it's probably easier to find lesbian and bi girls, but I don't know where they are! There's a queer student union, but it only meets during the school year.

    No advice, but good luck.
     
    #2 Maeve, Jun 1, 2014
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