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Sharing a bed

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by theinvisiblekat, Jun 10, 2014.

  1. theinvisiblekat

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    I'm going to the beach this weekend with friends and we have a hotel room for a few nights. All of my friends going know about my orientation and are completely cool with it. However sometimes I still feel weird. When they come over or like when we get a hotel I sometimes feel awkward to share a bed with them which I know is crazy when they have no problem with it. We're a tightly knit group with very few boundaries for each other. Does anyone else ever feel this way?
     
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    I suppose I would if it ever happened, but then I guess I would also be happy to know my friends aren't complete idiots who think I'm going to molest them in their sleep or something...
     
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    Yeah I agree with the above post ^^
    I would feel a bit weird and nervous but then again I would feel relieved that my friends aren't closed minded to think I was going to peep through the keyhole lol. But anyways...hope it goes well for you xx
     
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    I share beds with friends all the time, regardless of whether they're male, female, other, straight, gay or other.

    It's really not a big deal and a rather juvenile for people to think that anything would happen.
     
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    I recently went on a school field trip and stayed in a hotel room with my group. Some of the girls actually did seem kinda freaked out about sharing a room with me, but I wasn't bothered.
     
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    I guess people need to grow up and I hate girls who freak out in them type of situations.
     
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    I've shared beds with my straight male friends after nights out and we're usually too drunk to care - but they know that I would never do anything to them in their sleep, and I think that should speak for itself. I'd be upset if they thought otherwise.
     
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    I share a bed everynight with my big teddy ^.^
     
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    Me and my family have gone 100000000 vacations and have stayed in at least as many hotels. Every time we get a one room 2 bed. Everytime my mom and sis sleep together, my dad sleeps in the other bed, and I sleep on the floor -.-

    I hate family vacations