I'm going to the beach this weekend with friends and we have a hotel room for a few nights. All of my friends going know about my orientation and are completely cool with it. However sometimes I still feel weird. When they come over or like when we get a hotel I sometimes feel awkward to share a bed with them which I know is crazy when they have no problem with it. We're a tightly knit group with very few boundaries for each other. Does anyone else ever feel this way?
I suppose I would if it ever happened, but then I guess I would also be happy to know my friends aren't complete idiots who think I'm going to molest them in their sleep or something...
Yeah I agree with the above post ^^ I would feel a bit weird and nervous but then again I would feel relieved that my friends aren't closed minded to think I was going to peep through the keyhole lol. But anyways...hope it goes well for you xx
I share beds with friends all the time, regardless of whether they're male, female, other, straight, gay or other. It's really not a big deal and a rather juvenile for people to think that anything would happen.
I recently went on a school field trip and stayed in a hotel room with my group. Some of the girls actually did seem kinda freaked out about sharing a room with me, but I wasn't bothered.
I've shared beds with my straight male friends after nights out and we're usually too drunk to care - but they know that I would never do anything to them in their sleep, and I think that should speak for itself. I'd be upset if they thought otherwise.
Me and my family have gone 100000000 vacations and have stayed in at least as many hotels. Every time we get a one room 2 bed. Everytime my mom and sis sleep together, my dad sleeps in the other bed, and I sleep on the floor -.- I hate family vacations