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anxiety

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by biffle50, Jun 11, 2014.

  1. biffle50

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    I have a friend whose a year older than me. She's super duper nice but I'm afraid I might mess up the friendship. She is really important to me. I just want to know how to stop worrying. She talks to me at school but doesn't respond to text. I kinda have a tendency to always being the one reaching out and hate it. My best friend said give her a chance and don't worry. I'm trying my best. Does anyone have advice?:help:
     
  2. BookDragon

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    I'm trying my best.

    Look at this phrase again, and answer this question.

    If you are trying your best, what more can you be expected to do?

    I freely admit I'm not the best person to be advising on this, because if I am speaking to someone online and there is a gap I panic and think I've offended someone, but you know what, turns out it just hasn't happened.

    For all my freaking out, I have not offended people, they've just been doing other things.

    When I HAVE messed things up with someone they have let me know.

    Like your friend says, give them a chance and see what happens! They've got to put something in to this friendship too remember!!
     
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    try not to worry has like you said she does speak to you at school
     
  4. biffle50

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    Thanks for your good advice.