The purpose of this thread is to provide a space for people to state their resolve and what they are going to do to improve themselves. Some ideas would be coming out, learning something new and challenging, weight loss, or mental health improvement. If you are resolving to do something, post here. ---------- Post added 24th Jun 2014 at 08:31 PM ---------- I'll start. I weight 300 lbs. I eat when I'm nervous, I eat when I'm sad, sometimes I don't know why I'm eating at all. I will start dieting and exercising, and I won't stop till I weigh 160 lbs or less. And because I'm posting in this thread, it's guaranteed to come true* *not really
Excellent topic! Daily: - To learn, at least, one new thing a day. - To make, at least, one person laugh/smile/feel better a day. - To do something for myself, to motivate myself, such as a self-compliment, or something along the lines of, a hair cut or treat, a day. More long-term: - To be able to carry, at least, 150 lbs., of body-worn weights, in the next several months. - To do 100 push-ups in less than 2 minutes. - To become somebody in the legal system, to work with and help juveniles; to become somebody in the legal system, to be a detective; to become somebody in the legal system, to become a lawyer/attorney. - To find someone to mentor, in the event I am unable to adopt/have children, so that I know, when I do leave this world, there's still a gleam of positivity. Those should suffice, for the moment.
-Get some work done this summer (I keep procrastinating everything) -Come out to my mom and/or friends -Work out more and eat less -Become more confident
I believe in you, Acm! As hideous as I'd look, I'd wear a cheerleading uniform, just to cheer and encourage you! Yeah, it's that serious! :lol:
~Come out to my mother is at the top of my list. ~Enjoy life more then I do, that's going to be hard for me. ~Become a better person in general. ~do something different for once, my life falls in a pattern and I've had enough of it. ~stop giving my mom so much crap, I need to be a better kid for her
Yes, good luck, everyone! My own resolve? Be a better student. Each day, I need to renew my enthusiasm and ambition. NO EXCEPTIONS. I'm sick of putting everything off until the last minute. I'm sick of being lazy, selfish, and a procrastinator. How am I supposed to get into a good college with these sort of traits? I want to get into a good school. I want to land a good job. And to do that, I can't sit around and dawdle all day. I need to work. I need to do something resourceful for once and save the recreational stuff for later. I refuse to slack off. I refuse to procrastinate. I refuse to ruin my own life. I'm going to be a better student. I will. ... maybe :'( being not-lazy is so hard haha
-come out to family -be proud of who I am -lose some wieght -tell my friend how I feel about her -all a's
I am going to quit my terrible job. I am going to shave my head. I am going to move to a nice new apartment with my partner. I am going to rock this next semester academically. I am going to spend more time with my friends. I am going to read more and learn more. I am going to wear only clothes that make me feel comfortable and I am going to eat food and do things that make me feel good.
I want to be the best me I can be (which sounds totally lame), but I'm really struggling with it. I want to just be comfortable being me - not changing for other people, not hiding myself away because of judgement, I just want to openly be me. Now I just have to figure out how :lol:
