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Under severe stress

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by duende84, Jul 1, 2014.

  1. duende84

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    Dear forum members

    Allow me to vent...

    I am under severe stress. Recently me and my folks got an eviction notice and we need to be out of the place ASAP. Finding affordable housing in the area where we live is not an easy task. And since my career is not taking off I feel like a huge screw-up to put it lightly.

    I just need to get this out there. Been here before a few times in this situation and it is not a nice place to be. I know it clears up when all seems lost but I for once wish things will start looking up so that I can have some true independence in my life and be able to be with my BF. I feel so guilty talking to him about it as I dont want to burden him with my crap.

    I also yearn to get out of this darn closet once and for all and live my life without hiding.

    I need a hug... been over a week since I last saw my BF :icon_sad:
     
  2. Wuggums47

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    *Big hugs*
    Don't worry, you'll work it out.
     
  3. Hexagon

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    Hell, that sounds horrible. (*hug*)
     
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    (*hug*) you have my hugs, at the very least!
     
  5. Acm

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    I'm sorry that sounds rough (*hug*)
     
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    I am so sorry :frowning2:

    (*hug*)
     
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    Why not share it a bit with your BF - he may want to know and sharing is a good way to release some stress?

    Hope something works out soon !

    (*hug*)
     
  8. duende84

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    Thank you all. Now I am going to start crying... simply because there is people who care and who hears me.
     
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    *hugs*
     
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    (*hug*)(*hug*)(*hug*)(*hug*)(*hug*)(*hug*) you can have all the hugs you want for me. don't worry you'll get through this somehow. just keep your head up
     
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    Thank you all.
     
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    I'm so sorry you are going through such crap right now. I can't begin to imagine the stress this eviction must be causing you. ((hugs)) Just keep working hard, and coming here to vent with us, and eventually things will get better. Also don't feel guilty about leaning on your boyfriend a little bit. I'm sure he wouldn't want you to keep everything bottled up.
     
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    I'm sorry that you're going through some tough times. I hope things get better for you soon!
    *hugs*