I don't know if this makes sense. Most people regard me as handsome, i think so too sometimes (until i see someone very good looking). I'm intelligent too...but i look kinda dorky..that's what i'm mainly worried about. You see, secretly i want to wear nice clothes, daring haircuts...and basically, be more confident. I usually get into a clothes and feel totally lost. I'm not a big fashion person but i do want to look great...sometimes i wish i had a friend who had a fashion sense. The big problem., however is that i'm scared to try looking good. I dont know if its the fear of attracting too much attention...but i also think my dorky fashion sense is somehow limiting my dating life. It's kinda hard approaching the kind of people i like. This is not one of those ''i want to change myself for other people'' situation...i like who i envision as TeePee but am too afraid to give ''him'' a shot..... Any advice??
I think you should go ahead a develop a fashion and hair style. Don't worry about the hotness. From what I understand, it comes from confidence and once you've got that, you'll be able to handle however hot you get.
