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I fear I'm becoming a little bit misandrist... how do I stop?

Discussion in 'General Support and Advice' started by edy, Jul 14, 2014.

  1. edy

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    I'm a guy myself but I just can't stand other guys, yes I feel attraction for some of them but I also fear most of them:eek:
     
  2. asdfghjk

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    well son

    we're gonna need some more details, i feel like, because that is vaguetrain to vagueville
     
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    While I agree more info would be helpful, I can give a little advice.

    Try to find men you admire and respect. I'm talking in general; an actor or musician, philanthropist, public figure, anyone you can look up on Wikipedia basically :lol:

    When you see the good in some people, it can make you open to seeing the good in all of them. I had to do this with religious people, because it got to a point where I automatically assumed everyone who was religious in any way meant they were horrible and stupid. That was bad. So I sought to find religious people with good qualities and it helped move me away from that knee-jerk reaction.

    It will take time and you'll have to police yourself quite a bit and not give in to your immediate reaction, but it can be done.
     
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    The reason you fear them maybe because you are attracted to them :wink: